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Sunday, September 18, 2011
Superior Culture?
When I took the course "Business Ethics" in Ateneo Graduate School of Business, we learned that although there are differences among moral beliefs and practices, it does not mean that there is no universal good. This goes against the belief that "Since we have different beliefs, let's leave it at that. Do what you do while I do mine." In a more concrete example, it does not mean that if the Eskimo culture tolerate killing female babies and leaving the old to freeze for their survival, that it is right in their context.
We do not even have to put in religion here. In morality, this makes a lot of sense. In any culture, killing, taken in isolation, is morally wrong.
Currently, I am taking Intercultural Management and we are learning the differences of different cultures. (Achievement vs Ascription, Neutral vs Affective, Individualist vs Collectivist, Explicit vs Implicit, Soft-time vs Hard-time, etc) I have actually studied this several times before but something about the way our teacher teaches strikes me.
Of course, since we are in management, the teacher teaches us to tolerate and understand in order to adapt to different cultures. His way of teaching is that no culture is above another. Sure, that makes a lot of sense and I respect that. That is right. For example, Hard-time culture (those who stick to a time-table religiously) sometimes get frustrated to people from the Soft-time culture (those who welcome spontaneity) because in their opinion, soft-time people are inefficient. Where in fact, in some cases soft-time people can actually be more efficient, especially when they are open to adding more hours to work as opposed to sticking to a strict time-frame.
But in certain cases, I believe that certain cultural norms can actually be better than the others. For example, people with an Achievement culture (what you do over where you are from. what you know over who you know) can have more deserving people in important positions than in Ascription culture. Explicit people could have less miscommunication than implicit people and can easily solve their conflicts especially if they are also in the Neutral culture (Facts over emotions).
So in this case, what I'm trying to say is that we should examine our culture and identify which norms put us at a disadvantage. For example, we have so many undeserving politicians or corporate officers because of their lineage. Our Affective culture (emotions) can sometimes be an advantage but it could also put us at a disadvantage as we are sometimes too sensitive and do not listen to logic.
I believe the young ones are slowly adapting and changing the "Filipino culture" especially the time-orientedness. (Future-orientedness over Past-orientedness)
Hopefully, the new generation will be better. :)
We do not even have to put in religion here. In morality, this makes a lot of sense. In any culture, killing, taken in isolation, is morally wrong.
Currently, I am taking Intercultural Management and we are learning the differences of different cultures. (Achievement vs Ascription, Neutral vs Affective, Individualist vs Collectivist, Explicit vs Implicit, Soft-time vs Hard-time, etc) I have actually studied this several times before but something about the way our teacher teaches strikes me.
Of course, since we are in management, the teacher teaches us to tolerate and understand in order to adapt to different cultures. His way of teaching is that no culture is above another. Sure, that makes a lot of sense and I respect that. That is right. For example, Hard-time culture (those who stick to a time-table religiously) sometimes get frustrated to people from the Soft-time culture (those who welcome spontaneity) because in their opinion, soft-time people are inefficient. Where in fact, in some cases soft-time people can actually be more efficient, especially when they are open to adding more hours to work as opposed to sticking to a strict time-frame.
But in certain cases, I believe that certain cultural norms can actually be better than the others. For example, people with an Achievement culture (what you do over where you are from. what you know over who you know) can have more deserving people in important positions than in Ascription culture. Explicit people could have less miscommunication than implicit people and can easily solve their conflicts especially if they are also in the Neutral culture (Facts over emotions).
So in this case, what I'm trying to say is that we should examine our culture and identify which norms put us at a disadvantage. For example, we have so many undeserving politicians or corporate officers because of their lineage. Our Affective culture (emotions) can sometimes be an advantage but it could also put us at a disadvantage as we are sometimes too sensitive and do not listen to logic.
I believe the young ones are slowly adapting and changing the "Filipino culture" especially the time-orientedness. (Future-orientedness over Past-orientedness)
The Pinoy Service Crew
My Apologies for not updating :| I have been busy with my Master Thesis so I was not able to update this blog. I think I lost all my followers now, if I have any. Hahaha.
But I have been to different cities since my last upload (Szentendre, Hungary; Balaton, Hungary; Amsterdam, Netherlands; Leiden, Netherlands; and Paris, France). I am currently in Angers, France. :)
I actually went back to the Philippines to have my shoulder checked by Filipino doctors. (I was in Baybay, Leyte; Sibugay, Leyte; Bacolod City; Cebu City; and Manila) It felt great to be back home and just feel the love from family and friends.
After being away from home and then come back, you just realize how great Filipinos are in the service industry. I mean the Filipino service crew literally spoil you with everything as you enter a restaurant or even a fastfood chain! Sometimes, it actually gets annoying when waiters just keep on checking how you are doing. This is so unlike restaurants in Europe where even expensive restaurants make you clean as you go. Of course, the really expensive ones don't. But see, even carinderias in the Philippines clean your table after you leave. But the funny thing is, these Filipino waiters actually get way lesser than their Europeans counterparts.
The way I see it, the reason for this is we basically have an abundant supply of labor. I mean we basically have someone for every position. People are okay with clean-as-you-go abroad because there are no cleaners. But in Filipino restaurants, you have a multiple waiters, janitors, cashiers, a security guard and so many more in one restaurant. And they have to work their butts off 'cause if they don't, they could easily be replaced with another Juan dela Cruz. It's sad but it's a reality.
If we were not overpopulated, the cost of labor would be much higher and employees would be given more importance. So yes, I am hinting something here. It's just unbelievable that a tiny country would have 92 million people while the biggest population in EU is 82 million (Germany).
Of course, overpopulation is not the only reason why we are a third world country and I am actually oversimplifying things. But it is a major reason and we should do something about this.
But on a positive note, at least we are spoiled in our restaurants, barbershops, spas, etc. Next time you get irritated because your order took long, just think, at least you do not have to clean your own table after. :)
But I have been to different cities since my last upload (Szentendre, Hungary; Balaton, Hungary; Amsterdam, Netherlands; Leiden, Netherlands; and Paris, France). I am currently in Angers, France. :)
I actually went back to the Philippines to have my shoulder checked by Filipino doctors. (I was in Baybay, Leyte; Sibugay, Leyte; Bacolod City; Cebu City; and Manila) It felt great to be back home and just feel the love from family and friends.
After being away from home and then come back, you just realize how great Filipinos are in the service industry. I mean the Filipino service crew literally spoil you with everything as you enter a restaurant or even a fastfood chain! Sometimes, it actually gets annoying when waiters just keep on checking how you are doing. This is so unlike restaurants in Europe where even expensive restaurants make you clean as you go. Of course, the really expensive ones don't. But see, even carinderias in the Philippines clean your table after you leave. But the funny thing is, these Filipino waiters actually get way lesser than their Europeans counterparts.
The way I see it, the reason for this is we basically have an abundant supply of labor. I mean we basically have someone for every position. People are okay with clean-as-you-go abroad because there are no cleaners. But in Filipino restaurants, you have a multiple waiters, janitors, cashiers, a security guard and so many more in one restaurant. And they have to work their butts off 'cause if they don't, they could easily be replaced with another Juan dela Cruz. It's sad but it's a reality.
If we were not overpopulated, the cost of labor would be much higher and employees would be given more importance. So yes, I am hinting something here. It's just unbelievable that a tiny country would have 92 million people while the biggest population in EU is 82 million (Germany).
Of course, overpopulation is not the only reason why we are a third world country and I am actually oversimplifying things. But it is a major reason and we should do something about this.
But on a positive note, at least we are spoiled in our restaurants, barbershops, spas, etc. Next time you get irritated because your order took long, just think, at least you do not have to clean your own table after. :)
photo taken from Philippines Today
Monday, May 23, 2011
Pinoys - A Race of Artists? Really?
Whenever I see a performace abroad, more often than not, I get amazed at the spectacle. I see how much effort they put into preparing for the said production: the elaborate production design, the on-point lights, the background music, the organized front of house, the precise direction, etc. As a fan of performing arts, I get chills and have that twinge of jealousy. I want to be in the shoes of those artists.
And then I have that smirk and think that Filipinos can do better than the performers. We are after all, "a race of artists" as per Mikey Bustos. Then like any Filipino, I would think about Leah Salonga, the Jabbawockeez, and all the part-"Filipinos" who made it big (Bruno Mars, Nicole Sch... of the Pussycat dolls, Rob Schneider, etc) just to convince myself that we really are a race of performing artists.
But if we are a race of performing artists, then how come art is not such a big thing in our country? No one cares about the theater industry except the thespians who still market their plays to schools for their plays to be an obligatory requirement for a course. Our hit films still rely on overused chliche love strories: a love triangle where one has to choose between rich or poor, a perfect guy vs the bestfriend, a new found love vs the ex, and... basically that's it. They just switch the actors and directors so marketing will really be based on personalities. Our singing contests only patronize singers who can reach the high notes of standard songs and sing the same way as how the original singer sang it. And of course, the contestant must have a sob story to win.
Don't get me wrong. There are great artists out there. Have you watched a play in CCP recently? There are a lot of philosophical and defiant plays out there. There are also a bunch of talented flimmakers who either show their films to private screenings or to Cinemalaya. And there are musicians who write great music and refuse to sing Karaoke.They just don't sell. So maybe, we are not a race of artists after all. Like any race, performing artists are a minority.
Or maybe it's because real artists tend to be snobs. They do not really care about selling their art, they just care about doing it. For a playwrite, a director, a filmmaker, or a composer, he or she just wants to showcase it and show it to the people "who matter" than to the masses who wouldn't get it. Going mainstream is being a sell out.
So in this case, especially in a third world country, art is for those who can afford to do so. More often than not, those who pursue art are those whose family can still provide them or those who have another career just to keep them alive. These people are not necessarily the most talented but because they are the ones who pursue it, they are the ones who eventually develop their talents. There maybe a few people who don't fall under this category so I salute them for having the balls to do so.
So it's still possible that we really are a race of artists but most of us just can't afford this lifestyle. It's just sad to think that the next Francisco Baltazar might be somewhere out there studying nursing because he's the eldest in the family and he has an ailing mother. Again, don't get me wrong. I think this is noble but it's just a pity he cannot pursue what he really wants. Or a potential Eli Buendia might be forced to sing "Through the Fire" with the exaggerated hand gestures because this will be the only way he can win the amateur singing contest of Brgy Maliwanag. Naturally, he will lose because he was not meant to sing that one.
I don't want this entry to end so sad so I'm posting here the video made by Mikey Bustos where he said we are a race of artists. Enjoy!
And then I have that smirk and think that Filipinos can do better than the performers. We are after all, "a race of artists" as per Mikey Bustos. Then like any Filipino, I would think about Leah Salonga, the Jabbawockeez, and all the part-"Filipinos" who made it big (Bruno Mars, Nicole Sch... of the Pussycat dolls, Rob Schneider, etc) just to convince myself that we really are a race of performing artists.
But if we are a race of performing artists, then how come art is not such a big thing in our country? No one cares about the theater industry except the thespians who still market their plays to schools for their plays to be an obligatory requirement for a course. Our hit films still rely on overused chliche love strories: a love triangle where one has to choose between rich or poor, a perfect guy vs the bestfriend, a new found love vs the ex, and... basically that's it. They just switch the actors and directors so marketing will really be based on personalities. Our singing contests only patronize singers who can reach the high notes of standard songs and sing the same way as how the original singer sang it. And of course, the contestant must have a sob story to win.
Don't get me wrong. There are great artists out there. Have you watched a play in CCP recently? There are a lot of philosophical and defiant plays out there. There are also a bunch of talented flimmakers who either show their films to private screenings or to Cinemalaya. And there are musicians who write great music and refuse to sing Karaoke.They just don't sell. So maybe, we are not a race of artists after all. Like any race, performing artists are a minority.
Or maybe it's because real artists tend to be snobs. They do not really care about selling their art, they just care about doing it. For a playwrite, a director, a filmmaker, or a composer, he or she just wants to showcase it and show it to the people "who matter" than to the masses who wouldn't get it. Going mainstream is being a sell out.
So in this case, especially in a third world country, art is for those who can afford to do so. More often than not, those who pursue art are those whose family can still provide them or those who have another career just to keep them alive. These people are not necessarily the most talented but because they are the ones who pursue it, they are the ones who eventually develop their talents. There maybe a few people who don't fall under this category so I salute them for having the balls to do so.
So it's still possible that we really are a race of artists but most of us just can't afford this lifestyle. It's just sad to think that the next Francisco Baltazar might be somewhere out there studying nursing because he's the eldest in the family and he has an ailing mother. Again, don't get me wrong. I think this is noble but it's just a pity he cannot pursue what he really wants. Or a potential Eli Buendia might be forced to sing "Through the Fire" with the exaggerated hand gestures because this will be the only way he can win the amateur singing contest of Brgy Maliwanag. Naturally, he will lose because he was not meant to sing that one.
I don't want this entry to end so sad so I'm posting here the video made by Mikey Bustos where he said we are a race of artists. Enjoy!
Monday, March 28, 2011
"Don't Judge" ; "I Can't Perceive You?" - The Common Judiciary System
Like most people, I've also undergone the adolescence stage of feeling misinterpreted and misjudged. When society tells you that you are such and such when you know you are not, you have that sudden burst of anger and frustration. You rebuke and shout, "Don't judge me cause you aint me."
But can we really tell society "don't judge"? No matter what you do, there will be eyes watching, ears listening, and minds thinking. The truth is, our minds process billions of things so when it sees another person, it is just natural to simplify one person into a stereotype. (Ok, i just made that up but you get the point.) I believe it is innate for human beings, which are thinking creatures, to pass judgements and perceptions towards fellow human beings.
Tell me you've never misjudged anyone before and I'll give you a double slap in the face.
The judgee.
I guess you've heard this before but I just want to reiterate it. People are going to judge you no matter what. It is up to you if you're going to let it dictate your life. If you really care what people think about you but you do not want them to continue viewing you as such, then it is up to you to prove them wrong. Reach out to them. Show them you are not what they perceive to be. Now, if you don't care (really, there's someone who does not care?), then just shake it off and continue doing what you're doing and present society your middlefinger.
The judger.
When you hear the word stereotype, negative connotations are always attached to it; however, I think stereotypes are useful (especially in marketing fast moving consumer goods). Admitt it, although not everyone fit their stereotype, a majority or at least a large number of people still fit their group's stereotype. Stereotypes are not made out of nowhere.
When we deal with new people, I guess it is normal to have preconceived notions of them based on their gender, race, age, reputation, etc. Now, it is up to us (the judger) if we let that stereotype hold until the end. Are you the type of person whose first impression on another hang on until the end or are you the type who holds a stereotype at the start but eventually tries to get to know the other person?
Let us not trouble ourselves by trying to defend against people judging because chances are, you'll lose. People judge. That's what separates us from animals who "think" they are all the same. As judging people also, we should be open-minded and not believe that our perception on others are accurate right away. Let's get to know each other. :D
So I present you this funny video from Yourfavoritemartian.
Don't try to defend. Just smile and take that dirt off your shoulder.
But can we really tell society "don't judge"? No matter what you do, there will be eyes watching, ears listening, and minds thinking. The truth is, our minds process billions of things so when it sees another person, it is just natural to simplify one person into a stereotype. (Ok, i just made that up but you get the point.) I believe it is innate for human beings, which are thinking creatures, to pass judgements and perceptions towards fellow human beings.
Tell me you've never misjudged anyone before and I'll give you a double slap in the face.
The judgee.
I guess you've heard this before but I just want to reiterate it. People are going to judge you no matter what. It is up to you if you're going to let it dictate your life. If you really care what people think about you but you do not want them to continue viewing you as such, then it is up to you to prove them wrong. Reach out to them. Show them you are not what they perceive to be. Now, if you don't care (really, there's someone who does not care?), then just shake it off and continue doing what you're doing and present society your middlefinger.
The judger.
When you hear the word stereotype, negative connotations are always attached to it; however, I think stereotypes are useful (especially in marketing fast moving consumer goods). Admitt it, although not everyone fit their stereotype, a majority or at least a large number of people still fit their group's stereotype. Stereotypes are not made out of nowhere.
When we deal with new people, I guess it is normal to have preconceived notions of them based on their gender, race, age, reputation, etc. Now, it is up to us (the judger) if we let that stereotype hold until the end. Are you the type of person whose first impression on another hang on until the end or are you the type who holds a stereotype at the start but eventually tries to get to know the other person?
Let us not trouble ourselves by trying to defend against people judging because chances are, you'll lose. People judge. That's what separates us from animals who "think" they are all the same. As judging people also, we should be open-minded and not believe that our perception on others are accurate right away. Let's get to know each other. :D
So I present you this funny video from Yourfavoritemartian.
Don't try to defend. Just smile and take that dirt off your shoulder.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
The Art of Competing - Pinoy Style
I once saw a billboard with the tagline, "Fit in. Stand out." (I think it was Jag Jeans) This seems contradictory and impossible. How can you fit in when you stand out? But at a deeper look, this aptly describes how Filipinos behave in a group.
Fit in.
As I mentioned in a previous entry, we have a collectivist culture wherein the group should be the first priority over the individual. Thus, we try to deflect attention (unless you're Kris Aquino or KSP) and pretend that we are not all that.
In school, how many times did you hear someone say, "I did not study. I'm so dead." Then you find out he got an A in the exam. Or how many times have you praised someone for being talented and the response will be, "Hindi naman. (Not really)" Or how many times did you hear well-off people use self-depracating statements.
More often than not, these people who "try to look humble" are concerned about the others who are on a lower level than them. They do not want the others to feel bad because of their stature. This is a necessity in the Pinoy culture to gain acceptance. Everyone knows you're smart, just don't rub it in our faces.
Stand out.
Coming from an overly populated third-world country however, we also have to stand out to have a competitive advantage over the others. We strive to have the best education (best at least to how far we can go mentally and most importantly, financially) and get prestigous degrees.
It is important in the Philippine culture to know where you are from, what is your position in society, and what can you do.
Fit in. Stand out.
Therefore, in the Philippine culture, marrying the two (Fitting in and standing out) is an imperative but is also a difficult art. Sometimes we get too competitive that we forget we are alienating ourselves from the group. In the same manner, we sometimes get too humble that we do not get what we deserve. Mastering both fitting in and standing out is a skill.
You have to find your edge so you would not get left behind but you must not be very eager to promote yourself so the society will not "excommunicate" you.
Fit in.
As I mentioned in a previous entry, we have a collectivist culture wherein the group should be the first priority over the individual. Thus, we try to deflect attention (unless you're Kris Aquino or KSP) and pretend that we are not all that.
In school, how many times did you hear someone say, "I did not study. I'm so dead." Then you find out he got an A in the exam. Or how many times have you praised someone for being talented and the response will be, "Hindi naman. (Not really)" Or how many times did you hear well-off people use self-depracating statements.
More often than not, these people who "try to look humble" are concerned about the others who are on a lower level than them. They do not want the others to feel bad because of their stature. This is a necessity in the Pinoy culture to gain acceptance. Everyone knows you're smart, just don't rub it in our faces.
Stand out.
Coming from an overly populated third-world country however, we also have to stand out to have a competitive advantage over the others. We strive to have the best education (best at least to how far we can go mentally and most importantly, financially) and get prestigous degrees.
It is important in the Philippine culture to know where you are from, what is your position in society, and what can you do.
Fit in. Stand out.
Therefore, in the Philippine culture, marrying the two (Fitting in and standing out) is an imperative but is also a difficult art. Sometimes we get too competitive that we forget we are alienating ourselves from the group. In the same manner, we sometimes get too humble that we do not get what we deserve. Mastering both fitting in and standing out is a skill.
You have to find your edge so you would not get left behind but you must not be very eager to promote yourself so the society will not "excommunicate" you.
This photo was taken in the Philippines. I just find it apt for this entry. :D
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
The Adobo Experiment
I've always wondered why Filipino dishes tastes so scrumptious when you're abroad.
When I was in Las Vegas 4 years ago, the taste of kaldereta and adobo in a Filipino restaurant tasted like heaven. I stopped thinking and focused on savoring every bit of that adobo. The same is the case everytime I eat a Filipino cuisine here in Budapest.
I came up with three hypotheses:
- Filipinos become better cooks abroad
- You just miss Filipino cuisine so every bite seem special
- They have better ingredients abroad
So I did a little experiment. Knowing that I'm probably the worst cook ever, I tried my hands cooking chicken adobo. If it'll taste like heaven, then the second hypothesis will most probably be correct. I also don't have the best ingredients since I settle for what is available and cheap so the third would not be a reason here.
Here's a look of the outcome:
It did not taste like heaven but it was close to it. :D So yes, I guess we just miss Filipino food so bad that when our toungue gets to feel that sensation of home once again, we feel like we're in heaven.
Then again, I might have just improved my cooking... NOT
When I was in Las Vegas 4 years ago, the taste of kaldereta and adobo in a Filipino restaurant tasted like heaven. I stopped thinking and focused on savoring every bit of that adobo. The same is the case everytime I eat a Filipino cuisine here in Budapest.
I came up with three hypotheses:
- Filipinos become better cooks abroad
- You just miss Filipino cuisine so every bite seem special
- They have better ingredients abroad
So I did a little experiment. Knowing that I'm probably the worst cook ever, I tried my hands cooking chicken adobo. If it'll taste like heaven, then the second hypothesis will most probably be correct. I also don't have the best ingredients since I settle for what is available and cheap so the third would not be a reason here.
Here's a look of the outcome:
With rice op kors!
It did not taste like heaven but it was close to it. :D So yes, I guess we just miss Filipino food so bad that when our toungue gets to feel that sensation of home once again, we feel like we're in heaven.
Then again, I might have just improved my cooking... NOT
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